Just gave the answer to this question on extjs4 forum and decided to post it here too by adding a code example. The answer is very simple: just load the record with the new data from the server by using the static method Ext.data.Model.load(id,config) then in the successful callback update that record, do a commit if you need, then refresh record’s node. Below the explanation in code form:

Ext.define('Writer.Person', {
    extend: 'Ext.data.Model',
    fields: [
        {name: 'id', type: 'int'},
        {name: 'name', type: 'string'}
    proxy {
      // Config for your proxy, it's a must for model to have a proxy.

Writer.Person.load(3, {
    scope: grid,
    failure: function(record, operation) {
        //do something if the load failed
    success: function(record, operation) {
        var store = grid.getStore(),
            recToUpdate = store.getById(3);


     // Do commit if you need: if the data from
     // the server differs from last commit data

    callback: function(record, operation) {
        //do something whether the load succeeded or failed